past May we were married. There are very few people in my inner circle of friends and within my family that know the truth about Amber’s sex. Not that I am embarrassed or ashamed, it’s just that I don't feel it is any of their business. My parents and brothers know even though I didn't tell them until we had been together for a little over a year. By this time she had been around my family so much that they genuinely loved her and felt she was part of the family. Anyhow I