I asked her " What's wrong?" Diana looked at me with tear filled eyes, " I'm embarrassed...I want to have sex with you..but I can't...I have never had an orgasm." " No reason to be embarrassed and certainly no reason to cry. Your ability to achieve an orgasm is probably based on your previous poor relationship and your emotional reaction as being inadequate." I called the babysitter and arranged for her to care for the child all night. I went to a near by motel and got us a